Примечания книги Пять путей к сердцу подростка. Автор книги Гэри Чепмен

1

YOUTHviews 6, no. 8 (April 1997): 3; published by The George H. Gallup International Institute, Princeton, N. J.

2

Linda Temple, «Courting by Computer: On-Line Replacing Phone Lines for Teens in Touch», USA Today, 14 April 1997.

3

YOUTHviews 6, no. 7 (March 1999): 3.

4

James Garbarino, Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them (New York: Free Press, 1999), 6–7.

5

YOUTHviews 5, no. 9 (May 1998): 2.

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Jerrold K. Footlick, «What Happened to the American Family?», Newsweek (Special Edition), Winter/Spring, 1990, 15.

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Eric Miller with Mary Porter, In the Shadow of the Baby Boom (Brooklyn, N. Y.: EPM Communications, 1994), 5.

8

Richard Louv, Childhood's Future (New York: Anchor, 1990), 6.

9

Ron Hutchcraft, The Battle for a Generation (Chicago: Moody, 1996), 32.

10

George Barna, Generation Next (Ventura, Calif.: Regal, 1995), 32.

11

Thom S. Rainer, The Bridger Generation (Nashville: Broadman & Holtman, 1977), 44.

12

YOUTHviews 6, no. 3 (November 1998): 2.

13

Ibid., 6, no. 1 (September 1998): 2.

14

Ibid., 5, no. 1 (September 1997): 1.

15

YOUTHviews 5, no. 8 (April 1998): 1; published by The George H. Gallup International Institute, Princeton, N. J.

16

Ibid., 5, no. 9 (May 1998): 2.

17

Ibid., 6, no. 8 (April 1999): 3.

18

Ibid., 5, no. 7 (March 1998): 2.

19

Ibid., 5, no. 6 (February 1998): 5.

20

Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 2.

21

YOUTHviews 5, no. 2 (October 1997): 1, 4.

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Цитируется по: James Garbarino, Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them (New York: Free Press, 1999), 50.

23

Ibid., 51.

24

Ken Canfield, The Heart of a Father (Chicago: Northfield, 1996), 194-95.

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Garbarino, Lost Boys, 158.

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Тем, кто борется с гневом, могу порекомендовать книгу: Gary Chapman, The Other Side of Love: Handling Anger in a Godly Way (Chicago: Moody, 1999).

27

Garbarino, Lost Boys, 138.

28

Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence (New York: Bantam, 1995), 25–35.

29

David Popenoe, Life Without Father (New York: Free Press, 1996), 191; Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Boundaries with Kids (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1998), 46; Garbarino, Lost Boys, 154.

30

Garbarino, Lost Boys, 168.

31

Ibid., 163.

32

Ibid., 132.

33

Anne Cassidy, «Fifteen Ways to Say ’I Love You’», Women’s Day, 18 February 1997, 24.

34

О том, как справиться с гневом, читайте: Gary Chapman, The Other Side of Love: Handling Anger in a Godly Way (Chicago: Moody, 1999).

35

YOUTHviews 6, no. 8 (April 1999): 1; published by The George H. Gallup International Institute, Princeton, N. J.

36

Ross Campbell, How to Really Love Your Teenager (Wheaton, III.: Victor, 1983), 33.

37

Gary Smalley and Greg Smalley, Bound by Honor (Wheaton, III.: Tyndale, 1998), 98.

38

Eastwood Atwater, Adolescence (Englewood Cliffs, N. J.: Prentice Hall, 1996), 198.

39

Ibid., 201–202.

40

Smalley and Smalley, Bound by Honor, 107.

41

Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 13.

42

Gary Chapman with Derek Chapman, The Five Signs of a Loving Family (Chicago: Northfield, 1997), 35–36.

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Счет до 100, 500 или даже 1000 может быть эффективным средством борьбы с немедленными и неуправляемыми гневными реакциями. По поводу того, как это может вам помочь, см.: Gary Chapman, The Other Side of Love (Chicago: Moody, 1999), 38.

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Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 150.

45

George Sweeting, Who Said That? (Chicago: Moody, 1995), 302.

46

Ibid., 370.

47

Lawrence Kutner, Making Sense of Your Teenager (New York: William Morrow, 1997), 44.

48

Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 16.

49

Ibid.

50

Ibid., 16–17.

51

Ibid., 16.

52

Иисус назвал величайшими заповедями: любить Бога всем сердцем и любить ближнего, как самого себя; см. Мк. 12:30–31.

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Lawrence Kutner, Making Sense of Your Teenager (New York: William Morrow, 1997), 141.

54

Steinberg and Levine, You and Your Adolescent, 187.

55

John Rosemond, Teen-Proofing: A Revolutionary Approach to Fostering Responsible Decision Making in Your Teenager (Kansas City: Andrews McNeal Publishing, 1998), 170.

56

Shmuel Shulman and Inge Seiffge-Krenke, Fathers and Adolescents (New York: Routledge, 1997), 97.

57

Tom and Adrienne Frydenger, The Blended Family (Old Tappan, N. J.: Revell, 1984), 19.

58

Shmuel Shulman and Inge Seiffge-Krenke, Fathers and Adolescents (New York: Routledge, 1997), 123; Frydenger, The Blended Family, 120.

59

Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 13.

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Joseph F. Kett, Rites of Passage: Adolescence in America, 1790 to the Present (New York: Basic Books, 1977), 169.

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Grace Palladino, Teen-agers: An American History (New York: Basic Books, 1996), 37.

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U. S. Bureau of the Census, Historical Statistics of the United States, Colonial Times to 1970, Bi-Centennial Edition, Part I (Washington, D. C.: Government Printing Office, 1975), 380, 379.

63

Palladino, Teen-agers, 45–46.

64

James Lincoln Collier, Benny Goodman and the Swing Era (New York: Oxford Univ. Press, 1989), 190-91.

65

The Oxford English Dictionary утверждает, что впервые слово «тинэйджер» было употреблено изданием Popular Science (April 1941).

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«Sub-Debs — They Live in a Jolly World of Gangs, Games, Gadding, Movies, Malteds and Music», Life, 27 January 1941, 75.

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Leslie Hohman, «As the Twig is Bent», Ladies Home Journal, October 1939, 67.